5 Things That You Aren't Telling Yourself I Will Tell You
You don’t have to be satisfied with things that suck in your life.
self-help
Stop telling yourself how the job you hate is the way it is, or everyone else is in debt so it’s okay for me to be, or I don’t know very well what I want in life so I’ll just keep settling for what I am doing. There is no need to settle for less than you deserve. Stop brainwashing yourself and allowing other folks to influence you to keep living an average life. Be who you want to be and do everything you were meant to do, success and happiness will follow. You need to change your perspective or improve your situation. For instance in the event you don’t like your job and you often complain about it to friends, family or whomever will listen; you've two options. The initial it to sit down making a list of everything you don’t like, (easy enough), and the things you enjoy. Don’t say there isn’t much you don’t like, get started with, you get paid frequently, maybe you have benefits, you like your boss or coworkers, you learn additional skills, I practically wrote that to suit your needs. Make a complete listing of “likes” and “don’t likes” and if you will find aspects of your job you want try to do more of that in your job. You can volunteer to do much more of what you like, lay on committees, swap tasks with a coworker; there are ways to do that. If you still hate your job its time for option # 2. Are you ready?… Quit! Shocking I know, but you can find another job doing really what you like or doing work for a company more aligned along with your values. Lots of companies are looking; waiting for you. You need to simply make a plan and start your journey.
happiness
You are more than sufficient, you have greatness in the human body.
Yup, you may not want to hear it, but you are awesome, talented, and you've got gifts to offer your family and the world. The mirror will probably be your best friend or your worst enemy all depends on what you see and say once you look into it. Try affirmations in the morning and throughout the day. Say things like, “I am great…”, Or “no it's possible to do my job generate an income can, I am talented, knowledgeable, and talented.” think about, “I am an excellent parent or partner, I will be loving, supportive, empathetic, and caring.” Stuck indebted, tell yourself, ” I will be completely debt free since i have the power and tools to complete so” when you change the way you talk to yourself, you change your point of view and you will move towards living your very best life.
Set goals, write them down, and deal with them everyday!
Obvious I am aware, but most people don’t set goals, they've created wishes and we are all aware there aren’t that many genies on the planet to grant them. Stop being lazy and make the commitment to living your better life. Now I know a few of you may believe in the law of attraction, ask, believe and you also shall receive; in my opinion there is some truth to that particular, however, you need to add another layer, commitment. Remember to formulate S.M.A.R.T(S) Goals, write them down, visualize them, and work at them daily. You'll be amazed at what uncovers for you, your goals should come to life.
Exercise, exercise, exercise.
Didn’t I already say stop being lazy. Well I'm saying it again. Look, I realize it is difficult to find time and energy to exercise, but it is important maintain your health. You need to exercise, physically, mentally, and spiritually. Physically speaking, we all know the benefits of exercise, it promotes better health, provides you with more energy, cuts down on the possibility of health risks. Exercising likewise helps to promote a positive self-image, the higher you physically feel about yourself the greater you are mentally energized and the more swag you've. It will also translate to other parts of your life. Let’s talk mental workouts. You should take some time for yourself every day to recharge your batteries and develop a deeper understanding of which team you are. What I mean is that you need to take some time each day to take a seat quietly, or meditate, or relax for connecting with yourself, to break free of the stresses and pressures of work, family, and financial responsibilities. This gives you more clarity on what your location is now and where you need to go in life. Lastly, spiritual exercises. I am not necessarily speaking about religion, it’s much more about connecting with something greater than yourself. This maybe a little deep, but it’s connected to taking time out, it’s about being aware what the universe or more spiritual being is letting you know. We often ignore little messages that come our way, we right them off as unimportant, however, sometimes they may be messages for us to behave upon something, you have to listen. Set time every week to exercise physically, mentally, and spiritually.
Stop hanging out with “losers”
Oops, did I say that? (Steve Urkle voice. Google it if you don’t know), I certainly did! There are different types of losers, the sort of people who try to achieve their goals and fall short. I am not talking about those type of losers. I am talking about individuals who try to hold to hold you down, they are unsupportive.
My grandmother use to “Show me your mates and I will tell you who you are” that has always tied to me. You are which team you associate with, if you keep company with negative people who are stuck in their lives and have no motivation to improve their situation, you'll be the same. They will hold you when you try to move forward and you stuck. In the event you associate with positive, motivated, inspiring people, you'll be the same and you will start to move towards living the life you want.
In order to live your better life you have to be honest with ourselves, treat yourself well, believe that you deserve more, and take action. Surround yourself with positive, supportive people, and the possibilities will start for you. It’s time to replace those negative opinions with positive mantras, you will find the keys now drive.
Written by Danny Stone,
Author from the life-help book, You Have the Keys, Now Drive| Motivational Speaker| Life Coach| Who owns Personify Consulting and Coaching
For longer than 15 years Danny Stone continues to be helping people get unstuck, find more career and life success, and find more happiness within their lives.
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